人在江湖, 身不由己.

或许在有些时候 对于有些事情 与其靠别人 不如靠自己.

p/s: learn this at the career management yesterday: noone plans to fail.but if you fail to plan,you are preparing to fail.so start planning now!!! that's how he encourage us to start planning for our career. how encouraging. but at least it is better than having no clue in the first place. =) i suppose i do found some idea of what to venture into in the future.

p/p/s: if you have no clue where you are going,how could you ever reach your destination? so decide where you wanna head to and work towards it. what's most important in life is not the destination (since in life the only destination all of us can reach is death) but the journey, however if you do not have a destination/aim,when is your journey going to start? it is the destination that determines your journey.so start planning now!

p/p/p/s: now i sound like the lecturer.