i went to eugene's house today!!

was supposed to blog there while he and xiaojia study HRM together.. but just cant find the mood to blog there.. but i seemed to be able to gather my thought better at home.. maybe i am used to blogging at home and not anywhere else.. perhaps it is the only place i could find some privacy to myself,though this is a public blog.. but feelings and thoughts could be quite personal at times.. so privacy is still required.. =)

anyway,we end up watching the 9o'clock show.. haha.. a lot of people said it was nice.. i have no idea.. i had never watch it before and it was my first time watching tonight.. but more or less,we could predict what is going to happen after a certain scene and that was the local production.. quite expected.. hai~

hmm,today i think i shall talk about relationships.. haha..

i guess i am the most unfit person to talk about this.. but anyway,these are just my thoughts and experiences.. so no offense to anyone out there..

1. do not start a relationship just because the person likes you.

this is what a lot of females/males encounter and tried to like the other party.. but in the end,it will be hurting them the most.. very often,the person who likes you too much may suffocate you becoming over-relying,over possessive of you as he/she feared that you don't love him/her enough to trust him/her or to be together with him/her..

fair enough?

i guess that could be one of the ultimate reason for breaking up -- insufficient trust..

2. never agree to go on a relationship if you dont trust him/her.

i mean this is self explainatory rite? if you dont trust the person,how do you entrust yourself to him/her? no trust,no love..

3. do not ever go on a relationship just because you wanna find a person to like.

you will end up hurting the person who likes you.. but you will end up hurting him/her when you reject him/her.. but 长痛不如短痛.. lessen the pain for the person who likes you.. and not hurt him deeply by goin on a relationship with him/her causing him/her to have more false hope..

4. never ever go into a relationship if you dont understand each other.

what's the point? you dont even know what are your true feelings for each other.. and who knows,he/she may be just judging your physical appearance (which is one thing i dislike).. there may be a likelihood you will be ditched when another girl/boy who is prettier/more handsome than you appears.. i fear this.. haha.. coz i have pretty low confidence in my physical appearance,not saying that i have more confidence with other aspects.. but comparatively to many other girls,i am just a plain old jane who will be ignored most of the time.. especially when i shut my mouth up.. haha..

5. no misleading if you dont intend to go into a relationship.

dont like just say.. dont say means like? haha.. it will just lead the guy on..

i failed in the above mentioned.

i am sorry.

if the person i hurt does read this entry..

*it is not as blissful as i thought it would have been to find someone to like me*