got this from the comments that my friends left at the chatter box..but i dun think there is much space there to reply,so i decided to reply here..

rong: sigh.. it's always sad to realise that relationships with the pple around us can nv really stay the same ya..?
me: yup,rong,it is sad.. that's why i somehow lose the faith that relationships are going to last long.. but our friendships are going to last rite?

huixin: yoz~very long din leave comment liao..heehee..i like wat u sae in the last 2 para abt exams and when go into workforce! So true..hai...
me :haha.. huixin,you really very long never leave comment le.. haha.. the last 2 paras are true because they are from people who had experienced it told me de.. by the way,you going overseas soon right?? when is it ar?? perhaps we could go send you off at the airport?? hee..but i forgot where you are going..opps.. do update us,kk?? hee..

jing: someone told me before, we can nv always haf frens by our side or always so close to them.. but let's not tink too much abt tt ya? let's jus try our best in keeping in touch wif all the tak-lorz!
me:i suppose that is true.. but arent friends supposed to be always on our side? i thought friends are supposed to be the only thing that last forever.. perhaps not in this era anymore i guess.. or simply,i am just to naive.. but anyway,i think we did a pretty good job in keeping touch with each other.. hee..=) in fact our blogs are a way of keeping touch aint it?

Joanna: i guess everyone's just busy and I really dared not think what will happen after we start working. Just continue to keep in touch while u can...jiayou for ur exams!!
me:yup,i guess so.. in fact i must admit that i think now we had already drifted very far apart.. haha.. and i can say that i really lost contacts with all my JC friends.. haha.. *guilty*

Kl: I agree with KJ!! People may change over time but as long as we keep in touch, the thread of frenship still exists!!
me: somehow i think that when people change,the relationship between you and the person will be different especially when there is a certain thing that binds the both of you together.. and if the change leads to that change in the binding, the friendship does change.. unless both of you changes and tries to compromise with each other.. however if only one party changes,it will be quite hard for the other party to accept,much more to compromise..

J: People change all the time. If we can accept the change, great. But if we can't, it's "goodbye dear fren".. People have flaws, if we can't look pass it, friction is inevitable.
me: even if we can accept the change,somehow the friendship will be different ba..and if such changes are unacceptable,compromisation cant take place and that ends the friendship.. isnt it too fragile?

J: Either both compromises, or one party have to give in for a relationship to survive. The rule is simple. But it is the application of it that is difficult
me: i dun think one party giving in will always help in the situation.. what is the use of having one party giving in and the other taking? in the end,the party giving in will feel that his effort is not appreciated and sooner or later,again,the friendship will end..

J: Because to acknowledge and admit one's fault is the greatest difficulty..
me: this is true.. the strongest people are the one who will admit their fault and try to undo their wrongs..

J: Most of the time, your truest frens are your oldest longest frens. TO be able to get this far, it proves that there is mutual understanding and compromization...
me: i realised that.. as we grow older,it seems harder for us to just open our mouth to introduce ourselves to the people who just sat beside us in lectures, we rather be dumb.. and i guess it is sort of sad when this happen.. well,i am one of many who are dependent on friends,i guess that was perhaps why i never really make much friends when i was in lecture.. i am always with another friend.. haha..

by the way you are?? haha..

lena: i tink we r fortunate to haf the tak lor gang haha... cheers to our 9 yr friendship!
me: i think so too and i appreciated that.. thanks and cheers..=)