"我想
有質疑也不稀奇
因為對方對自己太重要了
所以才會因為一些小事而開始質疑不是嗎 ?
因為對方突然不理不睬 ,
因為對方的突然暴躁 ,
因為需要對方時卻發現他不在身邊 ,
種種原因 ,
你開始質疑 , 開始想
"是我做錯了什麼嗎?"
還是
"原來他根本不把我當朋友"
這些想法
我覺得只是一時的
每個人都有情緒不太穩定的時候
有時候需要自己一個人不想被打擾
有時候或許根本就是自己想太多
這時候
我想自己應該靜靜滴想想
靜下來
心情調適好
不要懷疑 ,不要質疑
因為好朋友得來不易, 一定要珍惜"

got this again from jianyang who got it from someone's blog.. he always find such thing in other people's blog de.. i found it meaningful and hence i post it here.. haha..

why i find it meaningful? it is probably because i felt the same way at times too.. just doubtful about certain things and dun dare to clarify it.. coz it may turn out tat such a thing may be true.. or perhaps that friend will just say i think too much and avoid the topic.. i mean i cant read minds.. dunno if someone mean what he/she say.. anyway i dun think i can write in such a way.. perhaps one day i should try.. perhaps i may feel better after sharing.. haha..

but one thing i agree with the writer is this : 好朋友 得來不易 一定要珍惜..

learn to treasure everything you have.. and not hope to get what you dun get... haha.. erm, dunno what i saying? just treasure and show appreciation with the things around you ba.. the time spent together etc.. hehe..