chatted with lena this morning on msn..haha..her mom was sick and so she couldn't make it for the outing to meet diana's friends at pavillion tampines..anyway,was rather early and reached there pretty early..was standin there like an idoit waiting for the rest to come..and i dun even remember whether to meet at the tm mac or the small mac..so gotta msg diana and found out that actually i was waiting at the rite place..haha..so i just continue standin there stoning at small mac..luckily i had my mp 3 player with me,if not i am sure i looked like an idoit..haha..
finally found horng jiunn(hj)[hj is easier to type..haha] at the mr macdonald there so i suspected it was them..keke..yah,and of course,true enough,i find my dearest diana there..haha..with him..felt so "bright" hence decided to edge away..keke..then waited for kaijing to come..haha..she was late..hehe..and i think her throat very uncomfortable lo,keep coughin..poor thing..sick still come..but luckily she comes if not i very awkward..haha..then at last siew hui came and we went to pavillion to play pool..haha..me and kaijing was walking rather fast..dunnoe why..haha..and kaijing is reallie go there and sit one lo..haha...
started playing with siew hui i think..and also played a match against diana,ziyang,hj and calvin(siew hui's god bro)who joined us later..yong xiang(another of siew hui's bro)..calvin was damn good lo..he started the ball rolling and haha..didn't stop until he got 3 colored balls left(includin the black one) and i think he sort of let me la..after knowing i damn bad at shotting..haha..either that or maybe all my balls are blocking his ways..keke..anyway,quite fun playing with them la..haha..alot of laughter
and joy..
then after that we went to long john silver(proudly suggested by siew hui) haha..then mum called to complain about not goin to weiqin's house after making all the jelly,etc and asked me if i am goin to my gandma's hse for dinenr..and in the meantime,diana and siewhui tried to change the seats of kaijing..like matchmaking like that..in the end,i was like sitting opposite a guy (calvin) who i was not reallie familiar with..diaoz..(copy diana)-.-"' haha..feel abit awkward coz i didn't reallie talk to him(calvin) and instead i was teasing diana and hj..keke..haha..then me and hj are like arguin with each other keke..
after that,diana and siewhui went to take neoprints and so me and kaijing went around to shop shop..haha..saw some precious thoughts stuff,etc..got the urge to buy..but cannt buy..cannot waste money..goin to uni(esp private uni without any subsidies from the government) is expensive..must control my spending..haha..i mean all those application fees,etc..hai~~ex sia..haha..the books and stuff..reallie gotta look for night employment and stuff..weekend jobs le..hai~~
meet yeeling and took a pic with her..haha..she just came from gon to the wet and wild(aka wild wild wet) with zhixiang..haha..and she saw huang pin yuan and his family..haha..u noe?he is the one who sang xiao wei..and the zhen mo she de wo nan guo..haha..both my favourite songs..keke..haha..then after that we left diana they all as they are goin to safra there to bowl and kaijing yeeling and me are more interested in shoppin..keke..and somemore,yeeling is goin to get birthday present for her friend's birthday tml..haha..
then went to ah ma's house and watched the charity show abit..coz by the time i reached there almost 8.30pm le..haha..got scolded of course..duh??sure one mah..haha..leave tampines around 7.40..took bus number 38 from 1 interchange to the other..haha..should have taken 67 with yeeling but never mind la..enjoyed the time with kaijing also..haha..
went home then go online le..talked to diana and hj..haha..and also lena la..but she always mia..then haha..very funny loh..haha..wadever i said to hj,he will copied and paste for diana to see and whatever he told me,i will paste for diana to see..keke..funny sia..diana like the server..keke..anyway,i think hj knew too much about me le..haha..and that doesn't means good..hehe..should act more mysterious..and i guess i still dunnoe much about him..haha..and he said that my personality and looks doesn't match..haha..guess it gotta do with our mentality and how we faced each situations ba..whether we adapt to it and changed?or we make the situation changed..but most of the time we changed to adapt to the situation as changing the situation is much harder for us..wadeva..i think too much le..haha..
he asked me to do a quiz and anyway,this is the result..
Your Type is
ENFJ
Extroverted Intuitive Feeling Judging
Strength of the preferences %
56 11 67 11
Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are:
moderately expressed extrovert
slightly expressed intuitive personality
distinctively expressed feeling personality
slightly expressed judging personality
The Giver
As an ENFJ, you're primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in primarily via your intuition.
ENFJs are people-focused individuals. They live in the world of people possibilities. More so than any other type, they have excellent people skills. They understand and care about people, and have a special talent for bringing out the best in others. ENFJ's main interest in life is giving love, support, and a good time to other people. They are focused on understanding, supporting, and encouraging others. They make things happen for people, and get their best personal satisfaction from this.
Because ENFJ's people skills are so extraordinary, they have the ability to make people do exactly what they want them to do. They get under people's skins and get the reactions that they are seeking. ENFJ's motives are usually unselfish, but ENFJs who have developed less than ideally have been known to use their power over people to manipulate them.
ENFJ's are so externally focused that it's especially important for them to spend time alone. This can be difficult for some ENFJs, because they have the tendency to be hard on themselves and turn to dark thoughts when alone. Consequently, ENFJs might avoid being alone, and fill their lives with activities involving other people. ENFJs tend to define their life's direction and priorities according to other people's needs, and may not be aware of their own needs. It's natural to their personality type that they will tend to place other people's needs above their own, but they need to stay aware of their own needs so that they don't sacrifice themselves in their drive to help others.
ENFJ's tend to be more reserved about exposing themselves than other extraverted types. Although they may have strongly-felt beliefs, they're likely to refrain from expressing them if doing so would interfere with bringing out the best in others. Because their strongest interest lies in being a catalyst of change in other people, they're likely to interact with others on their own level, in a chameleon-like manner, rather than as individuals.
Which is not to say that the ENFJ does not have opinions. ENFJs have definite values and opinions which they're able to express clearly and succinctly. These beliefs will be expressed as long as they're not too personal. ENFJ is in many ways expressive and open, but is more focused on being responsive and supportive of others. When faced with a conflict between a strongly-held value and serving another person's need, they are highly likely to value the other person's needs.
The ENFJ may feel quite lonely even when surrounded by people. This feeling of aloneness may be exacerbated by the tendency to not reveal their true selves.
People love ENFJs. They are fun to be with, and truly understand and love people. They are typically very straight-forward and honest. Usually ENFJs exude a lot of self-confidence, and have a great amount of ability to do many different things. They are generally bright, full of potential, energetic and fast-paced. They are usually good at anything which captures their interest.
ENFJs like for things to be well-organized, and will work hard at maintaining structure and resolving ambiguity. They have a tendency to be fussy, especially with their home environments.
In the work place, ENFJs do well in positions where they deal with people. They are naturals for the social committee. Their uncanny ability to understand people and say just what needs to be said to make them happy makes them naturals for counseling. They enjoy being the center of attention, and do very well in situations where they can inspire and lead others, such as teaching.
ENFJs do not like dealing with impersonal reasoning. They don't understand or appreciate its merit, and will be unhappy in situations where they're forced to deal with logic and facts without any connection to a human element. Living in the world of people possibilities, they enjoy their plans more than their achievements. They get excited about possibilities for the future, but may become easily bored and restless with the present.
ENFJs have a special gift with people, and are basically happy people when they can use that gift to help others. They get their best satisfaction from serving others. Their genuine interest in Humankind and their exceptional intuitive awareness of people makes them able to draw out even the most reserved individuals.
ENFJs have a strong need for close, intimate relationships, and will put forth a lot of effort in creating and maintaining these relationships. They're very loyal and trustworthy once involved in a relationship.
An ENFJ who has not developed their Feeling side may have difficulty making good decisions, and may rely heavily on other people in decision-making processes. If they have not developed their Intuition, they may not be able to see possibilities, and will judge things too quickly based on established value systems or social rules, without really understanding the current situation. An ENFJ who has not found their place in the world is likely to be extremely sensitive to criticism, and to have the tendency to worry excessively and feel guilty. They are also likely to be very manipulative and controling with others.
In general, ENFJs are charming, warm, gracious, creative and diverse individuals with richly developed insights into what makes other people tick. This special ability to see growth potential in others combined with a genuine drive to help people makes the ENFJ a truly valued individual. As giving and caring as the ENFJ is, they need to remember to value their own needs as well as the needs of others.
Jungian functional preference ordering:
Dominant: Extraverted Feeling
Auxiliary: Introverted Intuition
Tertiary: Extraverted Sensing
Inferior: Introverted Thinking
click http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp to do the test..=) and do tell me the results..haha..can find out more about you guys one woh~~!!


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